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Anniversaries & Milestones


Today would have been my 23rd wedding anniversary.

You want to know what I feel about it? Absolutely nothing.  Nothing, nada, zilch.

Know what else?

We reached over 500 followers this week!

You guys!  I started this blog almost two years ago and I would be happy if just a handful of people read it.  To reach 500 followers wasn’t even something I thought I wanted, but turns out I do, so  Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

When I woke up this morning I didn’t even remember it was my wedding anniversary.  I happened to open up the Book-Face and saw one of my old memories from years ago barfing all sorts of love-speak all over my ex who I was still married to at the time, honestly FB can be both a blessing and a curse when it comes to that memory function.

I hopped on my favorite platform, Twitter and tweeted it was my wedding anniversary and I don’t feel anything about it and then tweeted that if nothing else, this is what I want you to take away, there is an After post divorce or loss.  There is a time to look forward to be whole and happy again.  There is a time when it really won’t hurt as much anymore.  I know I can’t speak for those of you who have lost a loved one to death, but I can speak for myself having lost someone to deception and divorce – I feel nothing towards the divorce or my memories of my marriage.  I can look back on that time in my life as a memory with very little feeling attached.  This is what the After looks like.

As for the future, I will continue writing, taking mediocre photos and forgetting to use commas.  I’ll continue to go on dates and probably tell you more about them than you really need to know and I’ll keep being honest and real with y’all because that’s all I know how to do.

See you next time, Cheers!


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