Adventure · Birds · Blog life · cooking · dating · Divorce · food · health & wellness · lifestyle · mental health · photography · Relationships · Social Media · travel · Uncategorized · Wildlife · WordPress

The Next Chapter

So here’s the thing. The Single & Selfish thing has pretty much run its course. I am for all intents and purposes, living full time with The Judge. I still have my apartment- my lease isn’t up until the end of the year, but I’d rather spend every night with him. It’s that great. This… Continue reading The Next Chapter

Adventure · Blog life · cooking · dating · Divorce · food · health & wellness · lifestyle · mental health · Relationships · sex · Social Media · WordPress

Love in the time of Quarantine

What a crazy time in the world for all of us. We are all experiencing this same insanity in real time all together as a planet and while it's scary, it's also a beautiful time in my personal life. I asked on Twitter if people wanted to read a new blog post, but that it… Continue reading Love in the time of Quarantine

Adventure · Blog life · dating · Divorce · lifestyle · mental health · Relationships · sex · Social Media · Uncategorized · Wildlife · WordPress

This is going to be gross

Screenshot from https://pin.it/3iTYV25 on Pinterest I warned you. This is going to be a gag-fest if you’re single and salty. Maybe that should have been my monicker instead of Single & Selfish. I digress...if you are one of my people who is anti love and anti relationship- which is totally ok!! You do you, Boo-Boo;… Continue reading This is going to be gross

Blog life · dating · Divorce · lifestyle · mental health · Relationships · Social Media · Uncategorized · WordPress

F¥cking Valentine’s Day

I woke up with a serious bee in my bonnet today. It’s Valentine’s Day again and I 👏🏼 Hate 👏🏼 It👏🏼!! It’s the dumbest holiday if you’re single. It’s the sweetest holiday if you’re happily in love. Bleh!! Gross! Gag me with a chocolate spoon. I’ve been rather venomous on social media today, spewing my… Continue reading F¥cking Valentine’s Day

Birds · Blog life · budgeting · cleaning · dating · Divorce · DIY · health & wellness · lifestyle · Money · photography · Relationships · Social Media · WordPress

Sticking your neck out

That's all dating is, really...finding two people who want to stick their neck out and see if there might be a match. I've been getting a few messages wondering how the second date with Car Guy went. It wasn't great. I think what I took away from that date was something that Maya Angelou once… Continue reading Sticking your neck out

Adventure · Blog life · Breast Cancer · cooking · dating · Divorce · health & wellness · lifestyle · mental health · Relationships · sex · Social Media · Uncategorized · WordPress

Here’s the thing…Dating, Man.

Raw, unedited, hair a mess, collar akimbo, Me. Dating is a challenge. You think you want something one day and then some time goes by and you’re not so sure you want it anymore. There was a time when dating was whatever was put before me. If I found myself attracted to someone I threw… Continue reading Here’s the thing…Dating, Man.

Adventure · Birds · Blog life · dating · Divorce · food · health & wellness · lifestyle · mental health · photography · Relationships · Social Media · Uncategorized · Wildlife · WordPress

Surrender

Every year in my life has a theme or a motto. 2016 was Demolish. My world was shattered and all that I knew to be safe and whole was destroyed. 2017 was Renew. I grew, I grieved, I started a blog. I got my feet underneath me again. 2018 was Shenanigans. I started a couple… Continue reading Surrender

Adventure · Blog life · budgeting · cooking · dating · Divorce · food · health & wellness · lifestyle · mental health · Relationships · sex · Social Media · travel · Uncategorized · WordPress

Single & Selfish…What I’ve learned

As I round the bases on the third year of being single – yes, it's been three years. I know! I can't believe it either. Next month, November 16th will be the third anniversary of the day my marriage imploded. The anniversary of the day I came to the sudden and quite world shattering realization… Continue reading Single & Selfish…What I’ve learned

Blog life · budgeting · dating · Divorce · health & wellness · lifestyle · mental health · Money · Relationships · sex · Social Media · Uncategorized · WordPress

Is vulnerability a dirty word?

Vulnerability. I had an interaction with someone I care about recently that made me feel really vulnerable. It basically made me feel like my heart was outside of my body and exposed to the elements and it was oh so very unprotected. It felt as though giving a piece of my heart to this person… Continue reading Is vulnerability a dirty word?

Adventure · Blog life · Divorce · health & wellness · lifestyle · mental health · Money · Social Media · Uncategorized · WordPress

So this happened…

So here we are again, guys.  Yep.  I broke my kneecap.  I'm currently stuck in bed again with an ice pack.  It's honestly something I've had a hard time talking about because I just can't believe I'm here again. It was Wednesday when I was simply walking - and POP.  I felt a pop, and… Continue reading So this happened…