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Proceed with Caution

  Proceed with caution, folks.  This post is getting deep. I remember so clearly after my divorce, being so hungry for my next life to start with someone.  I wanted to be a couple again so badly and get back to that routine of loving someone.  The idea of that right now makes my skin… Continue reading Proceed with Caution

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The healing power of Animals

I know I've written plenty about how I just want to sleep alone in my bed with the remote control all to myself, snuggling with my cuddly puppy and being Ms. Independent, yada yada yada.  I think I may have introduced you to Chewbacca, my Pekingese Shih-tzu who is both my best little furry bud… Continue reading The healing power of Animals

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There is an After

Hey you.  Yeah, you.  The one over there bleeding from your blood pumper chest hole where your heart used to be.  Waking up daily thinking it was all just a dream only to in the very next moment have reality crash into you that the break up, the divorce, the separation, the end, really did… Continue reading There is an After

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Cruising & The Single Gal

I'm baaaack!  If you've been a fan of the blog for a while (like the beginning) you'll know I had a cruise scheduled with ten other women, some I work with, some are old friends, some were new friends.  It was a five day Carnival Cruise on The Valor and it was in one word....amazing.… Continue reading Cruising & The Single Gal

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A New Day

A new day, a new date. Friends have been reaching out to me since I ended things with The Gentleman, just to make sure I'm really ok, and I am.  I'm good.  I have realized a lot of things recently that have helped me understand how and why I was able to end things with… Continue reading A New Day

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Online Dating: Week 1

So it's been a week since I downloaded several dating apps and set up profiles.  So far, I'm very pleased to say that I've met several really nice men.  Not in real life yet, but chatting within the apps, they have all been very respectful, cheerful and encouraging.  I've yet to receive any undesirable photographs… Continue reading Online Dating: Week 1

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Post Birthday Weekend

This photo pretty accurately depicts how I feel after this weekends Birthday shenanigans. You might think I went hog-wild and hit all the clubs and drank myself stupid, hooked up with random men, got in fights, stayed up until dawn or any other number of things. Nope. Not today, Satan. The truth is, I did… Continue reading Post Birthday Weekend

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Don’t miss opportunity while you’re waiting for the next thing

I love wildlife photography.  When I got my camera everyone was asking if I was going to do portraits.  People.  Photographing families, proms, babies, graduations, engagement photos, etc.  No, no and finally no.  I take pictures because I love the process and that treasure hunt.  I have zero desire to make anyone else happy but… Continue reading Don’t miss opportunity while you’re waiting for the next thing

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Rabbit Holes

It's been a few weeks since I've sat down to write.  I just haven't been inspired.  In creative projects like this there are going to be ebbs and flows in the process. My energies have been elsewhere.  I've been busier than I've been in a long time at work, I've been going on a lot… Continue reading Rabbit Holes

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Spider Cactus?

I took this photo on our most recent Sister Birding Adventure.  My sister focuses on birds.  Birds are her thing.  Birds are my thing too, but so is landscape, shape, plants, insects, dead things...yes, I photograph the occasional dead thing, it's ok my sister doesn't get it either. I edited this photo and named it… Continue reading Spider Cactus?