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Things I’m looking forward to after hip surgery

Yep, you heard right folks.  I'm 48 years old and I'm having a full hip replacement later this summer.  I've suffered from hip pain for the last five years or really if I'm honest, it's been off and on for the last ten years but it's progression has ramped up in the last five. I… Continue reading Things I’m looking forward to after hip surgery

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Bandaids over Bullet holes

So I cancelled my date with the guy last weekend. I also told him I wanted to go back to being just friends. I explained that he had opened my eyes to my inability to trust and the triggers (how I hate that word) that he spurred.  He reluctantly agreed. How does one go about… Continue reading Bandaids over Bullet holes

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Crushing like a 15 year old

Let's just change my name to Swoony McSwoonerton, shall we? Remember back in Middle School when you had a crush?  A boy or girl who just seemed like the best thing since sliced bread and you admired them from afar and imagined what it would be like to have them like you back and go… Continue reading Crushing like a 15 year old

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It’s Casual

Can we talk about something?  It's probably not something you hear all the time and it's likely not going to be a very popular opinion, but.... Casual sex.  Hook up culture.  It's so perfect. As the title of this blog indicates, I'm single and selfish.  Not selfish with everything - I like to think of… Continue reading It’s Casual

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Dating Apps!!

  The strangest thing happened to me on the internet the other day.... A man slid into my DM's on Twitter....and didn't want to show me a photo of his junk. It's true.   I got a message from @Newmanin2018 who posts to the account Best Dad I Can Be and he suggested this topic.  So… Continue reading Dating Apps!!

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Goals

When I ended my marriage over two years ago, over time I found freedom.  I could make my own choices without consulting anyone else and could set new goals and challenges for myself.  One of those goals was to do yoga. I used to be a gym rat with my ex-husband.  We would go to… Continue reading Goals

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Feelings, Man!

The past several months have been some of the most fun of my entire life.  I mean it's been a combination of How Stella Got Her Groove Back, Exhale and Sex & The City (The first one, not that awful sequel) all rolled into one.  I've had dates, I've made friends, I've made Friends with… Continue reading Feelings, Man!

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Double Standards

It's a story as old as time...but it still pisses me off. I was talking with a single male friend the other day and we got to discussing the endless list of bad ideas about having sexual relationships in the work place.  It's just never a good idea.  I personally have two steadfast rules....I won't… Continue reading Double Standards

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My Mom can’t read this post

Seriously Mom! Stop reading and go to another post.  This one isn't for you. (You either, Dad!) Is she gone? MOM! Seriously! Move along! Ok. She's gone. This post is on a topic that has been on my mind the last few weeks and since it's not going away, the only thing I can do… Continue reading My Mom can’t read this post