I try really hard to not make the same mistake twice. My mom always said if I got in trouble for something I never got caught doing it again. Is this meant to say that I never did that thing again? Or that I never got caught again? Who's to know? I'd like to think… Continue reading The art of f*cking up
It's our Blogaversary! Two years ago, I remember where I was, thoughts circling in my brain. I was thinking about my divorce, thinking about how alone I felt. I remember suddenly realizing that I was looking at this whole being alone thing the wrong way. Perhaps I needed to think of the aloneness as being… Continue reading Happy Blogday!!
I talk a big game, y'all. I have made excuses for my non dating, non sex life for months now. All the reasons are true - I don't trust my bullshit meter when it comes to my heart, I don't want to share anything with anyone, I want my life to be my own one… Continue reading Warning! Serious Overshare Ahead
Do I have a boyfriend? Have I met Mr. Right? Or have I met Mr. Right Now? I have news, folks. I have a new significant other in my life. Please be kind....and say hello to Bruce. Bruce the Body Pillow, that is. Yes. The new significant other in my life is my new… Continue reading Boyfriend???
Warning: This is going to be one of those annoyingly positive, gratitude barfed all up in here blog. So if you're intent is to stay grumpy, don't say you haven't been warned. I am having one of those weekends where I don't have a single thing planned. These are the weekends I love. I can just hang… Continue reading Lazy, Grateful, Saturday.
I started to write about Gaslighting this morning, and I spent about an hour on it, but it just wasn't feeling right. It wasn't sounding like my voice. So I scrapped it. But the topic is an important one and I felt it was something I wanted to share. Gaslighting for those who aren't familiar… Continue reading Gaslighting & Boats
Like most people, music has always been a part of my life. I grew up in the 70's & 80's, which depending on who you ask was either some of the best music ever made, or some of the worst. My memories are strongly associated with experiences; it might be a smell, a taste, a… Continue reading The Beat Goes On
Would you believe me if I told you I've never had a Girls Getaway Weekend? Let me rephrase that, I've never had a Girls Getaway Weekend without any children. I have been a mother since I was 19, I have been married since I was 24 and I'm now finally single and both my children are adults… Continue reading Drink up, Bitches!
I spent the first seven months after my divorce waiting for the next man to appear. I tried forcing it, I tried flirting my ass off, I tried the dating apps, I even went on a couple dates, but nothing was working. Nothing was clicking. No spark was happening. There were a couple of dark… Continue reading The Single Life is the shiz!
You might wonder, "Wendi, how didn't you know that your husband hadn't been working for two months? How didn't you notice that the bills weren't getting paid?" I'll tell you, because I did what so many other women...and men do, we leave the finances, bank accounts, saving and bill paying up to our partners. Why?… Continue reading Learning to Adult